分手不要問理由

分手時，沉默是最好的問題，最圓滿的答案。

戀愛是甜蜜的，分手是難免的。

誰不是痛過幾次，哭過幾次，才找到最後的愛。分手是必經的，但有些問題不必問 。

1.不要問：為什麼要分手？
無論答案是甚麼，都是你難以接受的原因。

2.不要問：你有沒有愛過我？
愛過如何，未愛過又如何，總之這一刻就是不愛。

3.不要問：我做錯了些甚麼？
愛不是講對錯，而是講感覺。相愛是談情，不是講理，當愛的感覺已經不存在，對和錯又可以挽回些甚麼？

4.不要問：我有甚麼不好？她有甚麼好？我有甚麼比不上她？
何必逼對方，再一次侮辱你，打擊你的自信心。

5.不要問：難道你不記得我們以前快樂的日子了麼？
他/她要離開，就是因為他/她要的是現在的快樂，和將來的快樂。

6.不要問：不如我們重新來過？
這個哀求只會令對方覺得你更可憐、更卑微。

7.不要問：我們以後還可不可以做朋友？
這樣拖泥帶水，對方只會感到厭煩。

分手時，沉默是最好的問題，最圓滿的答案。

Work or Play

I can't tell if I'm working while playing or playing while working.

The End, is near

What a dramatic end to my stay here. Never expected that I'd be going out in such manner.

Still Remember

Yes, you still reside in that one special place in my heart. No, you have not been forgotten yet.

Pick

Pick, it's your turn to choose.

Systematic Approach

The logical statements entered into the notebook are broken down into six categories:

1. statement of the problem,
2. hypotheses as to the cause of the problem,
3. experiments designed to test each hypothesis,
4. predicted results of the experiments,
5. observed results of the experiments and
6. conclusions from the results of the experiments.

This is not different from the formal arrangement of many college and high-school lab notebooks but the purpose here is no longer just busywork. The purpose now is precise guidance of thoughts that will fail if they are not accurate. - Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig

V

Remember remember the fifth of November
Gunpowder, treason and plot.
I see no reason why gunpowder treason
Should ever be forgot...

Trust

"You see," he says to the girl, "you closed your eyes. That was the difference. Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel. And if you are ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them, too - even when you're in the dark. Even when you're falling." - Morrie Schwartz, Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom

Devotion

"Devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning." - Morrie Schwartz, Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom

Relationship

"Still," he said, "there are a few rules I know to be true about love and marriage: If you don't respect the other person, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. If you don't know how to compromise, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. If you can't talk openly about what goes on between you, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. And if you don't have a common set of values in life, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. Your values must be alike." - Morrie Schwartz, Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom

Shortsighted

"Look, no matter where you live, the biggest defect we human beings have is our shortsightedness. We don't see what we could be. We should be looking at our potential, stretching ourselves into everything we can become. But if you're surrounded by people who say `I want mine now,' you end up with a few people with everything and a military to keep the poor ones from rising up and stealing it." - Morrie Schwartz, Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom

Accepting & Forgiving

"Accept what you are able to do and what you are not able to do"; "Accept the past as past, without denying it or discarding it"; "Learn to forgive yourself and to forgive others"; "Don't assume that it's too late to get involved." - Morrie Schwartz, Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom

Meaning Of Life

"So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important. This is because they're chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning." - Morrie Schwartz, Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom