28 June 2006

分手不要問理由

分手時,沉默是最好的問題,最圓滿的答案。

戀愛是甜蜜的,分手是難免的。

誰不是痛過幾次,哭過幾次,才找到最後的愛。分手是必經的,但有些問題不必問 。

1.不要問:為什麼要分手?
無論答案是甚麼,都是你難以接受的原因。

2.不要問:你有沒有愛過我?
愛過如何,未愛過又如何,總之這一刻就是不愛。

3.不要問:我做錯了些甚麼?
愛不是講對錯,而是講感覺。相愛是談情,不是講理,當愛的感覺已經不存在,對和錯又可以挽回些甚麼?

4.不要問:我有甚麼不好?她有甚麼好?我有甚麼比不上她?
何必逼對方,再一次侮辱你,打擊你的自信心。

5.不要問:難道你不記得我們以前快樂的日子了麼?
他/她要離開,就是因為他/她要的是現在的快樂,和將來的快樂。

6.不要問:不如我們重新來過?
這個哀求只會令對方覺得你更可憐、更卑微。

7.不要問:我們以後還可不可以做朋友?
這樣拖泥帶水,對方只會感到厭煩。

分手時,沉默是最好的問題,最圓滿的答案。

23 June 2006

Work or Play

I can't tell if I'm working while playing or playing while working.

20 June 2006

The End, is near

What a dramatic end to my stay here. Never expected that I'd be going out in such manner.

19 June 2006

Still Remember

Yes, you still reside in that one special place in my heart. No, you have not been forgotten yet.

18 June 2006

Pick

Pick, it's your turn to choose.

02 June 2006

Systematic Approach

The logical statements entered into the notebook are broken down into six categories:
  1. statement of the problem,
  2. hypotheses as to the cause of the problem,
  3. experiments designed to test each hypothesis,
  4. predicted results of the experiments,
  5. observed results of the experiments and
  6. conclusions from the results of the experiments.
This is not different from the formal arrangement of many college and high-school lab notebooks but the purpose here is no longer just busywork. The purpose now is precise guidance of thoughts that will fail if they are not accurate. - Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig